Top 10 Personality Development Tips
We meet many people every day, but some people are those who influence us. For such people, we say that the person has got a pleasant personality People with such personality are often happy and they are respected everywhere, they are liked, invited in parties and they get promotions quickly. Naturally, we all would like to possess such personality and today I am sharing 10 points in this article which can help you to get a charming personality.
1. Like people genuinely like:When we meet someone, then make an image of that person in mind. This image can be positive, negative or neutral. But if we want to improve our personality, then we have to make this image intentionally positive. We have to train our mind that it is not evil to find good in people. This is not so difficult to do, if you give directions to mind to find good, then he will find out.
We should be patient with people, instead of being irritated by any shortage or shortcoming, we should keep ourselves in their place. Did you know if we were too busy in the same situation, they would be like them !!! Therefore, celebrate differences and do not get irritated with them.
Friends, the spreading negativity around us all greatly influences us, we hear news of theft, cheating, fraud, and perhaps this is the reason why the man is getting the confidence from the man. I do not say that you trust the people by tapping your eyes, but I must say that do not distrust people by blinding the eye. Most people are good; At least they are with those who are good with them, you make good with them, do them like them and they will do the same in return.
Ralph Waldo Emerson also said,
The person I get from is better than me in some form.
So when everyone is better than us in some form, then it can be done like that!
2. Meet with grin and smile:What happens when you meet your best friend? You smile seeing each other, is not it?
Smiling expresses that you like the front. The same thing applies in all kinds of relations, So whenever you meet someone (of course there are some exceptions) then take a genuine smile on the face, people will love you, they will be happy to meet you. If you do not get grin in the answer to your grin, it will be less, and if it happens then let it be you have to play your part well.
It would seem quite easy to hear, what to do, just a little smile, many logs do it naturally; But many people do not look at this little thing, and if you do not even do it, then take it in your practice. A smiling face is more attractive than a flat or stern face, and is very helpful in making your personality attractive.
Smiling has another advantage, as per some research; When we are happy with the inside, our external expressions are changed accordingly, people see that we are happy; And the opposite is also true, that is, when we make our external expressions happy, then it affects our internal mood and it gets better.
So, do not forget to move
3. The name is Meditation:For a person, his name places more important than all other names in the world. So, when you talk to someone, keep taking his name in the middle. Of course, if the person is senior to you, then you need to put a suffix or prefix required with the name.
In front of the middle name, it feels its importance, and also gives attention to you. And definitely, he is happy with the fact that you are giving importance to his name.
Friends, I was a bit raw in remembering the name, even after 2 minutes of knowing the name, he used to get away with meditation. It was basically because I did not try to remember the name; But now I try to remember it after knowing the name intentionally once. You also "remember the importance of the name", remembering the name gives you a very big edge.
4. Keep "You" before "I":Which one would you like most: who talk about your meanings or what you mean?
Of course, you will choose the second option ... Every person is first engaged in keeping himself ... I am like this, I like it, I do it ... isn't it? But separate it from you, keep "You" before "I".
How are you? "What do you like, what do you do?
I bet, people would love you more than this. If you talk about it then if you talk to me about AKC, then I would love you very much. 🙂
Not just actors, cricketers, or writers, even a common man wants the audience ... When you become a common man's audience, you become special for him. And when you do this with so many people, you become special to many people and you become more than a person, become a personality, a personality which everyone loves, whose charisma is influenced.
5. Listen before speaking:You can call it an extension of point 4. When you take interest in others, there should be honestness in it. You do not ask, "What do you like?" Just ask that he will finish his answer quickly and you start reciting his own Ram-fiction.
You do not have to give the person the chance to speak first, but listen to him carefully and interact with him in the middle.
For example: If someone says that he is fond of roaming, then you can ask him what is his favorite tourist destination, and which place is good there.
Demand for good listeners is never less, you become a good listener and see how your demand increases.
6. It is also important to say, how to say:What matters more than what you say is how you speak.
For example. If you make a mistake and you make a speech and say sorry, that sorry means nothing. We have to use not only correct words but also to keep in mind how it is being told.
So, pay attention to your tone and body language, talk to people as polite and well-mannered as possible.
Here I would also like to say that many people see the ability to speak English, relating to Personality, while it is not so, without A, B, C can also become a powerful person.
7. Help people without thinking of your own advantage:Many times we are in a situation that can help others, but we do not help out of laziness or by thinking that we have no benefit in it. But a person with a pleasant personality is ready to help people. Yes, this does not mean that you have left your important work and used to help people, but if you can get some work done for a short while, then surely it will come. Your selfless help will not only lift others out of your eyes and you will feel better.
You must have heard-
A little bit of fragrance always clings to the hands
8. Make your external appearance good:Since our first impression is due to our appearance, there is a need to pay a little attention to this point.
I do not mean by the Appearance that you go to the gym and make the body, or keep on walking around the beauty parlor, it simply means that you should dress up according to the occasion and pay attention to personal hygiene. Small things like your hair-cut, nails and polished shoe influence your personality.
9. Find what you can appreciate:Whether I am you, or Mr. Bachchan, everyone likes to hear compliments. This is a great formula to win the hearts of people and make your own friend ... Make an admiration, make true praise.
It is so difficult to appreciate anyone in India ... It must have surely been in the orchestra at the weddings... The singer sings a magnificent song and instead of playing applause, people start seeing each other's faces...; Well, I did not sing in the orchestra, otherwise, it went into depression because of such audience. 🙂
Well, I'm referring to praise on the individual level here. If you search, then everyone will see something in order to compliment you; It can be anything- find his garden, collection of coins, room decorated with upgrades, his smile, his name, anything, and then you will be able to see it right. And when you see it, do not sit still, and praise someone, you will give him whatever he wants from the heart ... you will increase his happiness, make his day, and the biggest thing is that you can carry that work forward too. Will give fuel to. If you are hesitant to speak in front, then send an SMS to it, tell it by mail, but if something praiseworthy then praises it.
Yes, if you do not try it too much, then try to do it. Children also understand that you are doing true praise or false.
10. Continuous observe and improve:Personality development is an on-going process. In all of us, there is infinite scope of improvement, so do not ever think that just now life has been going to improve, but take some time for yourself to observe your activities, your words intimately, what did you do, how did you do it better It may not be that you think of yourself as a thirty-marker, and in reality, people do not like your point of view.
For example. A few years ago, I realized that in the dynamics of bringing people quickly, I was able to point out so many mistakes that their confidence would be reduced; So I improved on this point and now I patiently do this work. You should also observe yourself increasingly on this path, and constantly improve.
I hope these 10 things will help you to make your personality pleasant.
What to do now?Now you have to practice these ten things alternately. To start with you choose a point of your choice, keep in mind that focusing only on one and only points at a time.
After choosing it, apply it to real life. Keep an eye on yourself in your day-to-day activities and see if you really are able to apply it or not.
When you do this for a week, lift another point and practice it now. During this time, you continue to apply the first point, but if it is missed then do not worry. At the moment, your focus is point 2, and it should not be missed.
In the same way, you keep practicing the rest of the points, and in a few months, you will find that you are able to meditate on all the things together. Just be patient and keep on moving, and surely you will soon be the owner of a pleasant personality.
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All the best!